Serious man is serious, and steps of INTJ attraction

Horrible weekend, computer broke and I spent several hours fixing it.  Anyway, I think I managed to identify the steps of how an INTJ experiences attraction, a "crush" if you will.  Those steps are:

• Initial attraction
• See if "target" reciprocates interest
• Reconnaissance/Study/Gather information on "target"
• Analysis of information to determine long term relationship potential.
• Take action based upon analysis or take no action if analysis indicates negative scenarios

That's it, those are the steps of how an INTJ experiences attraction.  I managed to derive such steps not just based upon personal experience but from information gathered on forums on how other INTJs react when they experience attraction.  Right now, reconnaissance and analysis are the ones that take up the most time, causing the "target" to lose interest.  I'm going to try to reduce that time.

On another note, I was right about how negative thoughts could affect outward behavior.  I keep having doubtful and negative thoughts causing me to never smile.  I need to be less serious.

Note to self:  Reduce reconnaissance and analysis time and be less serious.