The greatest asset that any INTJ or any intuitive individuals possess is their intuition. Their intuition allows them to see and "feel" things that a sensor can never see. Their intuition allows them to follow paths, find patterns and meanings in things that others will not be able to locate. However, there's a downside. Since intuition is based purely on pattern recognition and "gut instinct", and not on physical evidence, it can easily be skewed by biasness. My intuition is good, very good, it's correct about 95% of the time and it allows me to make extremely accurate predictions in most cases. When I'm dealing with women, however, my intuition is out of whack pretty much all the time. I've lost count of how many times my head is screaming out telling me to go talk to her etc., but only to not do it because my intuition is telling me she is not interested, won't go for me, hates me etc. I then later find out that she was attracted to me. I believe my intuition suffers from a negativity bias. When I "feel" something, I automatically assume the worst and take the action that is the exact opposite of what I should do. I always screw it up. My life, it's lulzy.
Note to self: Eliminate biasness from you intuition, trust your intuition. No more grade school, kiddy stuff when it comes to attraction. Don't let expectations cloud your judgement.
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