I have analyzed past events where I screwed up socially and I realize that I might be unaware of my own personal body language. Ironic, I keep analyzing other people's body language while at the same time I'm unaware of my own. I still remember the time when someone was speaking to me and I accidentally rolleyed. It was odd because I wasn't thinking anything bad at all. I guess all those times where people thought I was angry or upset with them was due to the body language and facial expression I was giving off. Why would my body express itself in ways that is totally different than I'm feeling internally? Is that even possible? Gotta investigate further.
Update: I think I saw Julie today at Library Walk. Not sure though, I can't even recognize her any more, but she did do that turning to the side I'm better than you look, so I guess it's her. Have to change response protocol.
Note to self: Practice in front of mirror to understand your own body language. If a woman does the turning to the side I'm better than you look, YOU have to initiate contact.
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