Nothing happened much in the last several days, I did see Eric, the econ major guy, again in the laundry room. The conversation between him and I went smoothly. I also saw Bill again too. Apparently he didn't drop the accounting minor and is going to be taking the same accounting as I am from now on. That's good, I just hope things between us won't end up like Phoebe.
This brings me to my other thought. Am I expecting too much of people? Am I expecting them to be the friend that I imagine and hope them to be, just to be let down when they aren't? Am I letting that preconception affect my relations with others? I don't think I should let my hopes and expectations be the foundation of my relationships with others. If I let my expectations control how I act around friends, then any romantic relationship will be doomed before it starts. I guess that is how my relationship with Katherine ended. When she responded with a resounding "hell no" if she would live with her in laws, she fell below my expectations and I immediately shut her out mentally. It was doomed before it began.
Note to self: Human beings are flawed, don't expect much of people. Don't be so vindictive.
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